Summary of Bacon’s “Of Friendship”

 

Introduction

Bacon is considered as the father of English prose.  He has written many prose pieces on various topics.  His language is to the point and short.  He uses powerful words.  In almost all his prose pieces, he tries to prove himself as an educated scholar.  He quotes Latin and Greek works and myth casually to prove his knowledge.  The prose “Of Friendship” shares Bacon’s ideas and views about friendship.

 

Lonely People

Bacon begins the essay by quoting Aristotle, who once said that people who are alone are either god or a beast.  He calls a lone human to be a beast because when we are alone we would hate society and behave like animals.  Bacon does not accept a lonely man to be godly because they cheat people in the name of higher conversation.  Bacon claims that people who are in crowd also would feel alone and look at others as pictures and mere sounds.  This is true for people living in big cities.  When a city is big, solitude is also big.

 

Principle Fruit of Friendship

The major advantage of friendship is that it makes us to share our heart in an open way.  It is a medicine that cures our hear.  We share our griefs, joys, hopes, suspicions and counsels with a true friend.

 

Friendship in the Past

In the past, kings would spend money over people and make them friends.  They raise their servants and ordinary people s their friends.  According to Bacon, such friendship should not be maintained.  He gives the example of Sylla and Pompey, Ceaser and Brutus, Augustus and Agrippa, Septimius Severus and Plautianus etc. All these men tasted a bitter fruit of friendship. 

 

First Fruit of Friendship

Friendship increases joy.  It reduces the intensity of sorrow.  If a man shares his happiness with a friend he feels more happy.  If he shares his sorrow, he feels lighthearted.

 

Second Fruit of Friendship

The second fruit of friendship is about understanding.  Friendship brings light when we are darkness or in confusion.  A friend is therefore a counselor.  He helps us to come out of our confusion.  It is better to share our problem with our friend than to meditate for a whole day.  If we are in a trouble we should think critically and friends would help us with our thought.  Friendship will help us and guide us.

 

The Final Fruit of Friendship

            The last fruit of friendship is the multi-purpose of friendship.  Friends are helpful to us in many ways.  For example when a friend dies at an early age, it is our duty to continue the noble works of our friend in his remembrance.  If we cannot talk something openly with our close relations, a friend can do that for us.  A friend is far better than any relation is.

 

Conclusion

Bacon concludes the essay by comparing life with a stage.  A stage needs many actors and a person cannot perform on his own.  If a man does not have friends it is better he exit from the stage.